Hi all, on this cozy Wednesday night… I had a conversation with one of my texters, who I describe as a person I normally text daily… but haven’t seen in years. The topic of course was relationship related; but more specifically related to modern dating.
Walking down the narrow-paved road to your erotic destiny. I see glimpses of your identity. Can you hear the brass drum speak? I can..while you procrastinate to reach your veracity by 10:00pm before it all began…Should you unmute your phone, and speak?
Let’s chat about modern relationships. If you are not sure you are in a modern relationship… let me help you. Modern relationships have no title, and are described as open relationships, friends with benefits, married and dating, casual sex, and associates with no strings attached.
This in my opinion, would make it a bit harder to really get to know someone. Therefore, it would not be important to share your deepest feelings or personal information with someone you’re only casually engaging with part-time.
Here’s the bitch you need to slay:( Casual Sex ) You want a real relationship
If you are looking for a connection that is going to last…here are three things that need to happen:
Communicate what you seeking in the connection. If the response is: “We are just having fun…You are just having fun… and you shouldn’t waste your time trying to change his/her mind … it’s not going to happen… “they just want to have fun”.
- Verbal Agreement
You both decide not to date anyone else. If you have agreed to have something solid, and it is not maturing past sex after a couple of months, and you still don’t know this guy’s middle name, favorite food, or where he work, and live…. Walk away.
- You Share the Same Vision
Your goals are aligned, and you are both working toward favorable outcomes, and you have discussed a future together.
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What are your thoughts?